Take a good, nutritious meal to someone who not well. It may be a long-term illness or just a bad cold. Your food and your thoughtfulness will be appreciated.
This suggestion came to us from Ruth V in Portland Oregon
It can be to go to a play and dinner, a ballgame or just a cup of coffee at the local coffee shop. It is not what you do, but that you are enjoying each other's company.
Have some extra time & need some exercise? Offer to mow your neighbor's lawn. Compensation? ask them to so something nice for someone else. Now you've made an extra person happy.
When someone does something for you - no matter how small the deed - say Thank you. Getting that "thank you" will make them more likely to do another nice thing for someone. Everybody likes to be appreciated.
Falls become much more dangerous as as people age. Older people should not be climbing up on chairs, etc... to change light bulbs. Let an older person know that when they have a bulb go out they can call you to replace it.
All military members appreciate a package from home. Send their favorite snacks and a couple of hometown newspapers to help them connect with the folks at home. go to http://www.anysoldier.com/index.cfm for more information on how to send a package.
On a hot summer day if you see your postal carrier coming get a cold bottle of water for them. It is a thoughtful way to say you appreciate their hard work.
Hospitals rely mostly on the kindness of people like you to donate magazines for their waiting rooms. Contact Volunteer Services at your local hospital to find out where to drom them off.
Let your child's teacher know that you appreciate the great job he/she is doing. Knowing they positively affect young lives is a big part of their pay.
Sometimes as they age, reading becomes difficult for older people. You can read the paper, a magazine article or a novel - whatever you have time for. You can be sure that they will appreciate it.
Contact Volunteer Services at your local hospital to find out who accepts books for their book programs. These books are a godsend for whiling away the long hours in the waiting room when a loved one is sick.
Babies are all beautiful, but parents just don't seem to get tired of hearing it. Watch a mom or dad beam as you coo over their child. A Reminder: never actually touch a child without the parent's permission.
When someone is ill it is sometimes hard to read a book, or even a newspaper or a magazine. Sure, they could get books on tape, but books on tape don't smile between chapters and offer to fluff a pillow. This is a kindness that will be repaid in a currency more valuable than dollars - smiles.
Some chidren are not able to afford school supplies. You can drop off supplies at any public school and they will be able to give them to a needy child.
If you are impressed with the behavior of a young child, by all means compliment the parents on their child's behavior. Parents always likes to hear that their child stands out.
If you find a waiter or waiterss you like, always ask to be seated in his or her section. Tell all your friends so they'll start asking for that server as well. You've just made that person look indispensable to the owner. The server will be grateful and take good care of you.
Libraries can usually use new or like-new books for their shelves. If they can't put your book on the shelf, they may be able to sell it at a fund raising book sale.
Let that person know that you miss their company. Even if you don't have time to talk, you have time to write a few words to let them know you are still thinking of them.
No one may see you do it and no one may ever know it was there, but not one more person will have to look at that piece of trash alongside the road again. That is a good thing.
There is no more precious gift you can give to a child than the love of reading. Reading is the doorway to all other learning. Teach a child to love reading and you have given them the world.
Sure it takes an extra few seconds, but if someone is frail or holding a lot of packages they will seriously appreciate your kindness. Even able-bodied folks are surprised and pleased when you hold a door for them.
It doesnt have to be a long conversation. Just let her know that you are thinking about her. It wouldn't hurt to throw in an "I love you, Mom." at the end of the conversation. It is amazing how much mom's love hearing from us.
It doesn’t have to be fancy, or even on a store-bought card. You don’t have to write a novel – just let the person know you are thinking about them. It is amazing how much difference one little note can mean to a person going through a tough time.